Month: September 2019

  • Echoes of the Non-guilty

    Echoes of the Non-guilty

    Years ‘ve come and gone

    Anticipation and anxiety tends to be more interesting than reality

    Thirst seem to be more fulfilling than the taste of water

    Abstinence which was preached as fundamental for purity seems to be my curse

    Loving you was easy but impossibility is an understatement for letting you go

    Taking you to the altar was one of the most fulfilling dreams I had

    Bed undefiled, temple nurtured whole

    Yet, my appetite couldn’t be appeased despite being just a little above average

    This marriage is my prison room

    And the locks are never to be found

    Yes! You are a career woman and the very best at what you do

    But why am I condemned to coldness?

    You wouldn’t stretch beyond what feels right to you

    And the greatest agony is you don’t even know the depth to which you are subjecting me to pain

    If only I could love again, I would try

    But, I don’t have the magic card to give

    Maybe breaking my marital vows isn’t so difficult

    Maybe finding pleasure here and there isn’t that hard

    Maybe concentrating on my happiness is an easy way out

    But the fact still remains…

    I will never fall in love again, not in this lifetime

    Your love give more pain than poison

    And you have no idea how lonely a married man is

    I hate loving you this much but I can’t help myself

    Sweetheart, may you not be unfortunate to love this much

    The pain creeps in slowly but excruciating

    My only wedded wife, how I wish this friendship never led to marriage.

  • Beauty and Brains: Rexy Rolle, the 30-year-old woman who runs a Black-Owned Airline

    Beauty and Brains: Rexy Rolle, the 30-year-old woman who runs a Black-Owned Airline

     Inspiration of the Day

    Meet 30-year-old  REXY ROLLE, the woman running one of the most successful Black-Owned Airlines In The World. She is born Sherrexcia ROLLE and hails from Bahamas. She currently works as the Vice President of Operations and General Counsel at Western Air based out of the San Andros Airport in the Bahamas.

    She deals with the daily operations of the company and also anticipating new destinations and plans on expanding the fleets and currently, the fleet is valued at over $90 million.

    The company is owned by her father Rex Rolle,  who is President and CEO of the company. Leading a company as such is not what we see black women do daily, Rexy Rolle is an inspration because young girls can do look up to her and believe in themselves. In her interview with essence she said

    ” I hope the lesson that they take from me is that you have to take advantage of any and all opportunities that may be presented to you. When I was younger I didn’t fully understand everything that my parents were sacrificing to do in terms of what their bigger vision was. I had to make a decision as to whether I was going to embrace their dreams, and build upon it or just feel comfortable and live my life, and not be aggressive in doing anything else. It’s important to know that whether you have limited opportunities or an abundance of opportunities, there’s always going to be an abundance of open doors, and it’s up to you whether you slam it shut, or burst it wide open.”

    The Choice is always ours to make when the time is right, things may not always go as planned but never stop aiming, never stop dreaming.

  • Fifa Best Player, another break of the dominance or return of Titan

    Fifa Best Player, another break of the dominance or return of Titan

    On 24th September 2018, Luca Modric was named the best player in the world ahead of Mohamed Salah and Cristiano Ronaldo to the award.

    Modric’s win broke the Lionel Messi-Ronaldo duopoly of the last 10 year having won the Champions League with Real Madrid and then played a major role in Croatia’s run to the World Cup final where they were beaten by France.

    The award is based on achievements from the period of July of the preceding year to July of the present year, with an initial 10-man shortlist compiled by a panel of experts which is then open to four voting panels made up fans, journalists, national coaches, and coaches.

    After this, the list will then be cut down into three final contenders by the end July. For this year, the three Best Fifa Men’s Player finalist included  Virgil van Dijk, Lionel Messi and Cristiano Ronaldo.

    Image source: Instagram

    Lionel Messi was top scorer in last season’s Champions League and won the European Golden Shoe as the continent’s top scorer. Cristiano Ronaldo was a Nations League winner with Portugal and the top scorer at the finals and Virgil van Dijk was voted man-of-the-match as Liverpool beat Tottenham Hotspur to win the Champions League for the 6th time.

    Van Dijk is the favorite to replace last year’s winner Luka Modric after he was named the UEFA Men’s Player of the Year.

    Ronaldo and Messi have both won the award five times, and it remains to be seen whether or not Van Dijk can beat them to the prestigious accolade or if one of the superstar duo will become the first player to win the prize a sixth time. We shall keep our fingers crossed until the announcement of the winner tonight. Who is your choice? 

    AUTHOR: OBAFEMI OLUGBEMIGA: obafemiolugbemiga@gmail.com

  • Thank you

    Thank you

    Talking- B appreciates all our faithful readers and subscribers, it’s been a great journey. Thank you

    Today, we bring you GOODNEWS!!

    We are expanding into web journalism and we are welcoming new collaborators.

    Our contents will not only focus on politics, human or personal development but we will discuss entertainment, sports, and even lifestyle topics.

    The goal is to remain critical but with a little bit of humor.

    Talking-B team remains at your service.

  • Say No to Suicide

    Say No to Suicide

    Suicide, a serial killer whose only weapon is its victim’s mind, an outlaw who never get prosecuted, he creeps into your thoughts and corrupt the mind…

    No matter how the world treats you, Say no to suicide

                 No matter how frustrating the situation is…

                 No matter how much that word hurts..

                 No matter how discouraging your parents are…

                 No matter how far your mates have  gone  and you feel left behind,

                 No matter how inconsiderate your siblings,husband,wife, children

                 Might be,

    When your family turn against you…

                 When the whole world neglect you, Say no to suicide

                  When it seems there is no one on your side, No to suicide

                  When you feel like giving up…

                  When you run out of strength…

                  When the situation overwhelms you…

                  When it seems the problem is unending…

                  When you fall and no one to help you…

                  When your pillar of support turns against you…

                  When your last ray of hope is lost, Say no to suicide

                 If you lose the war,

    The people you are trying to please, will say worst at your funeral

                 The house you don’t want to lose,will be sold eventually to a new family

                 To the friend you are trying to please, your death will be meaningless

                 That friend you think has gone ahead of you, will still be above you

                 The world you see as hopeless, will give hope to others

                 That situation you see as frustrating won’t mean a thing

                 That situation is not your end, pick up the pieces

    Be happy with yourself no matter what, Your happiness is not dependent on anyone

    The world may neglected you, But GOD will always stand by you

    Never give up on God

    That life is not yours, It was given to you by your creator

                      YOU CAN’T END IT

                      Remember,

                      GOD created you

                      Remember GOD as that last resort.

    AUTHOR: Helenlight 

    Odediranoluwayomihelen@gmail.com

  • Adultism

    Adultism

    Adultism just like childism, ageism, are discrimination against a particular set or oppression of people based on the age group the victims belong to. It is an indirect and mental attacks, mapping out how they should behave, communicate, react, dress by the majority group with social power and privilege whom fall outside the victims age bracket.

    Adultism according to a source could be explained as behaviors and attitudes based on the assumption that adults are better than young people, and entitled to act upon young people without their permission or agreement. This treatment is reinforced by social institutions , parents and organizational structures,who often abuse the power that adults have over their children.

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  • South Africa and Xenophobia

    South Africa and Xenophobia

    During the inauguration of President Nelson Rolihlahla Mandela the country’s first black head of state and the first elected in a fully representative democratic election, he said  

    We dedicate this day to all the heroes and heroines in this country and the rest of the world who sacrificed in many ways and surrendered their lives so that we could be free. Their dreams have become reality. Freedom is their reward. We are both humbled and elevated by the honour and privilege that you, the people of South Africa, have bestowed on us, as the first President of a united, democratic, non-racial and non-sexist government.

    We understand it still that there is no easy road to freedom. We know it well that none of us acting alone can achieve success. We must therefore act together as a united people, for national reconciliation, for nation building, for the birth of a new world.

    Let there be justice for all.

    Let there be peace for all.

    Let there be work, bread, water and salt for all.

    Let each know that for each the body, the mind and the soul have been freed to fulfil themselves.Never, never and never again shall it be that this beautiful land will again experience the oppression of one by another and suffer the indignity of being the skunk of the world. Let freedom reign. The sun shall never set on so glorious a human achievement! God bless Africa!Thank you.

    You look at South Africa today and you can’t but feel the late president Mandela was only speaking for himself. South Africans today are tribalistic towards one another, a certain tribe believes they own the country and other matters less. Consequently, that has been extended to foreign nationals who fought and supported South Africa during the harsh years of apartheid.

    The Xenophobic attack on May 11, 2008 at Alexandra, Johannesburg is still fresh in memories, a lot of nationalities especially Nigerians lost their lives and properties.The reason given by the South Africans is that foreigners are stealing their jobs, check the statistics below:

    Population of South Africans is approximately 57 million people; 

    Unemployment rate in South Africa is 29 percent, which makes about 8.6 million South Africans, forecasted to rise to about 10 million before end of the year 2019.

    There are only 2.2 million foreigners in South Africa

    The question is, how can 2.2 million people be the reason for unemployment of 8.6 million people?

    On July 20 2008, Nobel Peace Prize laureate Archbishop Desmond Tutu offered his apology to victims of the violence during a mass before thousands of worshippers.“Those who have been victims, we want to tell them we are sorry and we will not repeat this.We won’t tolerate this,” 

    He said, recalling the protection neighbouring countries offered militants struggling to end the nation’s apartheid regime.

    We were welcomed as exiles, as freedom fighters in those African lands.

    Could we really have forgotten so soon?”

    May I include that the motive behind the recent violence and looting of properties was not xenophobic but this is difficult to prove because South Africans have shown the attitude many times in the past among themselves and to foreign nationals. A borderless Africa is the way to our unity, our unity is non-negotiable.

    Reference:

    South African Government Information Website

    AUTHOR: OBAFEMI OLUGBEMIGA: obafemiolugbemiga@gmail.com

  • Reminiscing Life: When you can…

    Reminiscing Life: When you can…

    When you can dream but dreams do not control you;
    When you think but you go beyond thoughts to actions.
    When you can keep your head high, when all is falling around you;
    And the voices keep telling you are not good enough.
    Trusting yourself when all men doubt you, nevertheless;
    their doubts make you strife better.

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  • Conscious Living and Personal Growth

    Conscious Living and Personal Growth

    The universe is such a beautiful miracle with its conglomeration of inestimable elements, features, wonders, puzzles, creatures, hosts of other discoveries and the most amazing of all – its environment. It takes a creature with a brain, no matter how limited to identify and observe consciously what the universe offers, its effects, how to maximize or minimize its influence and dictate how it affects his or her personal life.

    Thus conscious living as some writers agreed involves questioning negative behaviors, actions, inactions, habits and substitute them with more positive ones. Consciousness empowers you with amazing sensation, motivation, and control over your life and situation,

    On the other hand, to embrace personal growth means to relentlessly work on self to improve and develop with age, advancing in wisdom, knowledge, and self-actualization. Personal growth is a way of evolving through a determined mindset and calculated attempts to overcome challenges and obstacles.

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  • The Future We Want!

    The Future We Want!

    Trees are one of the most important parts of the forest ecology, they are known to be part of the world’s most efficient repository of carbon monoxide: the greenhouse gas known for the increase in the planet’s temperature and the source of climate change. When a tree is fell, it’s canopy which blocks the sun rays during the day and retains heat at night can no longer serve its purpose.

    Through the last months, a couple of forests including the Amazonian forest in Brazil has been caught up with record-breaking fires. In Brazil alone, there have been more than 80,000 fires so far this year.

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