Category: Solidarity

  • Be the change, start recycling

    Be the change, start recycling

    Nina is hungry, exhausted from balance sheets and her nagging boss, drained in her sweat and above all,  she is stuck in a terrible traffic. Well, this is a usual thing if you live on the mainland and work on the Island in Lagos, Nigeria.

    As she let her mind wander and glanced around in a hysteric manner,  she observed a group of tired men hurriedly drinking from sachets bags (locally called pure water), which they landed on the ground after few seconds of quenching their thirst. Then, she gazed through the watercourse (gutter) that separated the road, it was filled with plastics of different shapes, colors, and sizes. She saw bottles, cans, disposables plates, plastic spoons,  and sachet bags, nylon bags, etc… 

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  • The shaky teary old Lady

    The shaky teary old Lady

    At the train station, the boys walked by swiftly and then, I saw shaky teary old lady….

    Life has a basic trajectory which it follows toiling in a continuous transition of personalities regardless of gender. Life is generally accepted to be in stages in relation to age and status. It can almost be assumed that all parents envisage or look forward to, being a grandparent someday as it is a blessing and enormous achievement for many. The presence of a new life has a way of changing even a stronghold of enmity within a family, diffuse heated situations, soften enraged hearts and enhances unity.

    A newborn is a miracle that never wears out, neither can one get used to it without being a victim of its ever positive effect in the normal cycle of life. It evolves into a new phase when the birth is in the second generation. Grandparents grow soft on all sides upon the birth of their grandchildren. They get more tolerant and accommodating, more open-minded and forgiving, more selfless and hospitable.

    Unfortunately, life is quite complex and has its way of frustrating our existence. Some teenagers can’t even tolerate or stand their old one capitalizing on flimsy excuses ranging from being old school, talking out of context, to being ugly, walking feebly, and even a general assumption of being evil.

    Where did we miss it?  What went wrong?  Is our society sowing seeds of contempt? Is civilization a tool against the old folks? Hostility to a grandparent is not just inhuman, it is mental torture, domestic violence that needs swift action.

  • A pathetic trend in our society: Suicide

    A pathetic trend in our society: Suicide

    Mornings are bright, reassuring and often filled with hope, it is another chance to start over again in a better way in the hurdles of life. In the same vein, nights also has her glamorous beauty, closure and rest though dark but unique. Seas dry, just like trees, animals, and birds die obeying the cycle of life. Humans are no exception even though, a bit more dramatic yet the inevitable cannot but happen eventually. Death is agreeably a spectacular design in all living creations which put an end to existence, but no one in their right mind wishes to die irrespective of how long they have lived. This becomes a puzzle, raise questions and leave others in awe when the cause of death was perpetrated by self. It is termed SUICIDE.

    Researches by WHO shows that Close to 800,000 people die due to suicide every year that is, one person every 40 seconds. Which further reveal that for each adult who died by suicide there may have been more than 20 others attempting suicide.¹ The act of committing suicide used to be very rare in Africa communities and even termed “western madness” in some part of Africa showing their firm belief in the common phrase “when there is life, there is hope”. Nigeria now ranks the 30th most suicide-prone country out of 183 nations in the world with 15.1% suicides per 100,000 people annually.²

    One cannot but wonder what prompted the underrated abuse of will and freedom motivating people regardless of age group resorting to the inhumane plague of the mind. The inquisition has over time shows depression, mental disorders, financial difficulty, marital problems, academic challenges, rejection, and several others things deem to be mundane as causative reasons for such drastic decision and an easy way out of all these worries. An average Nigerian has one worry or the other especially, as surviving in the country has continued to prove tougher leading to a rampant rate of suicide cases lately.

    Though other causes like terminal diseases, absence of working national security system, lack of unemployment benefits, lack of good infrastructure and unfavorable economy can lead people to commit suicide, it cannot be overemphasized that 90 percent of people who commit suicide suffer from depression or mental illness with bipolar and schizophrenic disorder inclusive. Most of the major causes of death which include sickness, poverty, and malnutrition happen to also be, some of the causes of depression. Indeed, tackling depression in our society could be the first giant step to eradicate suicide.

    Even though, it is a crime to attempt suicide, prosecution of the act appears to be rare probably due to lack of correctional facility to help them or measures to reduce the reoccurrence of such act. Unlike diseases and sicknesses that can be prevented and treated when prevention fails, nothing brings succor to a dejected soul except appropriate counseling. Family and friends often fail to understand the symptoms of suicide not until after the harm has been done. The burden suicide does extend beyond the deceased as it psychologically affects people left behind, filling them with guilt and contempt wondering if there is something they could have done right leaving their heart bruised. It is important that we begin to take every abnormal behavior, violent remarks and careless statements of frustration serious and observe closely.

    There is a need for government, NGOs, churches, and other institutions to create awareness to sensitize the populace closing the gap in the treatment of depression and establish counseling centers where people could visit to seek succor as prevention is the only viable approach to curb the habit of committing suicide. As much as we hate to be caught up in poverty, sickness, disappointment, rejection, et al… we should never forget they are part of life which has been from the time immemorial and will be till the end of time. It is our duty to overcome the challenges! 

    If you need help? 

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    References:

    1. World Health Organisation Report
    2. Africa.com
  • International Women’s day

    International Women’s day

    Women that inspire us

    We are sharing some quotes by women that inspire us. Over the years women have fought so hard, they have fought against violence, injustice, rape, inequality etc… Today, we have women flourishing in science, politics, media, churches, and every social domain. The fight is not yet over but we cannot ignore the progress that has been done.  We celebrate a girl child,  a daughter, a mother,  a wife, a sister, an aunt.

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    Quotes 

    1. Michelle Obama 

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    « You should never view your challenges as a disadvantage, instead, it is important for you to understand that your experience facing and overcoming adversity is actually one of your biggest advantages. »  Michelle Obama

    Michelle Obama is a symbol of strength, courage, and resilience. We are inspired by her fight for education and the empowerment of the girl child. 


     

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    2. Mother Teresa

     

    “I am not sure exactly what heaven will be like, but I know that when we die and it comes time for God to judge us, he will not ask, ‘How many good things have you done in your life?’ rather he will ask, ‘How much love did you put into what you did?” ― Mother Teresa

    Mama Teresa, the champion of love and selflessness. It’s more like choosing to intentionally love and live a life of service.


    3.Malala Yousafzai

    Malala“When the whole world is silent, even one voice becomes powerful.”― Malala Yousafzai

    Malala is a symbol of courage in the midst of fear. Always speak and stand for what you believe, people will talk at you, abuse you and sometimes shot you in the head.


    4. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

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    « It’s not your job to be likable. It’s your job to be yourself. Someone will like you anyway » Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

    We would refer to her fearless, she says what she thinks. One of our writing mentors. The way and manner she pencils her thoughts are intriguing. This quote reflects what you feel when you read her books, she is just being real.

     


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    5. Joyce Meyer 

    “Spending time with God is the key to our strength and success in all areas of life. Be sure that you never try to work God into your schedule, but always work your schedule around Him.” ― Joyce Meyer

    A purpose driven life by Joyce Meyer is one of the books that helped shape the lives of young people of our generation. Joyce Meyer speaks truths and undiluted word of God


     6. Indra Nooyi

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    Leadership is hard to define and good leadership even harder. But if you can get people to follow you to the ends of the earth, you are a great leader. Indra Nooyi

    Nothing more inspiring as a good boss lady, Indra Nooyi is the CEO of PepsiCo, she is known for her amazing leadership skills and how she perfectly manages her role as mother, wife and a CEO.


     

    7. Amina J Mohammed

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    “Let us join forces to build a future of dignity for all, in which no one is left behind” Amina J Mohammed

    She radiates grace and beauty, leading in the United Nations, standing for the right of woman all over the world. We respect and salute you.

    We celebrate our mothers and all the beautiful women out there, keep moving, let nothing stop you!

    Share your comments and tell us about the women that inspire you?

  • Child Maltreatment and Sexual Abuse

    Child Maltreatment and Sexual Abuse

    John is a smart, brown-eyed boy, slightly tall and dark thick hair like the mist of Indian embroidered in beauty somewhat as the Greek god Adonis whom Aphrodite couldn’t get over. As a child, he was that type of baby everyone wanted to kiss and hold in their hands. He is now 11 years and still radiates the beauty and glow of a baby except for the way he paraded on foot. There is an unusual limping related to his style, at first you will believe it is a voguish manner associated to prepubescent children of his era but a deeper look, you will be forced to question his faltering walk.

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  • The Faults in Africa Education System

    The Faults in Africa Education System

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    The education system in Africa, contrary to the belief of many, existed a long time possibly taking its origin from Ancient Egypt. The Schools of Holy Scriptures built in Egypt (former Ethiopia and Al-Azhar) were the first form of higher education. These schools became cultural and academic centers attracting people from all over the globe for knowledge and instruction. Meanwhile, the world’s first university was located in Timbuktu, opened in 2600 BC.

    The indigenous knowledge system was based on traditions in which communities effectively taught and learned from themselves through daily life rather than strict education. They used modeling approaches to pass the necessary skills to younger members of the community.

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  • Rape- A cancer that feeds on the soul

    Rape- A cancer that feeds on the soul

    Humans have thus far accumulated an ocean of knowledge that transforms humanity to a modern version in all ramifications. Nevertheless, derogatory behavior such as rape still has a firm grip on a large ratio of the human race irrespective of geographical location, status, religion, color or tribe.

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  • Black History Month

    A journey of a thousand years can only start with a single step regardless of how brisk, sluggish, disheartening, unrealistic or promising it might be. While the future is still cloudy, the sagacity of one’s belief and faith continually inspires to keep pushing.

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  • Focus on Entrepreneurship

     

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    Entrepreneurs and innovators are scattered across the globe with their existence preceding formal education in the history of mankind. We can as well say, they are the very beginning of civilization in the earliest days, when trade by barter was used for business transaction and intuition coupled with trial by error were used for discoveries, which were continually built-on till the age of industrial revolution when several human labor was replaced by machines facilitating accuracy, speed, and ease. Being a business of risk and chances, for an innovation to be significantly recognized, there must be a preconceived problem it is solving and must be marketable. Entrepreneurship and innovation can never be overrated as it cut across every field ever known i.e. medicine, education, agriculture, science, mining, marine, engineering, to mention but a few. Like farmers yearn for fertile soil to till, scientists, crave for a laboratory to experiment, and sailors need the sea to function, entrepreneurs and innovators need an enabling environment.

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  • Phototherapy

    Talking about the trade show from last week, it was quite an interesting moment for us. The general idea of the trade show was devoted to women seeking fulfillment in their careers, starting a new business project, or those who want to understand the benefits of time management personal development.

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    Reconversion implies changing into something prevalent. We realized that some of the women had great positions but are exasperated and hence desire to take an adventure of discovery into their passion, latent craves and desires. 

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